Words, wanting to be heard!

Being a teenager, life is so complicated right? We have to balance so many things. Friendship comes first, hanging around with cool people, last minute studies, screwing up things by getting involved into many, taking various life-changing decisions which would make or break our future totally, most importantly abiding by the rules laid down by our family.. Difficult right? We need to enjoy our life to the fullest at this point of our life for these days won’t come back again. We need to prove ourselves cool in front of all those people who tagged us boring. We need to hang out with the ‘DUDES’ just to ensure that people accept us. We need to upload our status on all social networking sites to keep the world aware that we are enjoying our life. ”Enjoying at Goa” ,“Hanging out with friends” ,”Trekking with friends” ,”Watching a movie with friends” ,”At Social”, “At Café Coffee Day” and blah blah . And yes, not to forget the so called “Selfie Fever”, wherever you go, you need to click ...

“You are a girl, you aren’t supposed to walk this way.” “You shouldn’t talk so loud remember you are a girl.”  “Beta, don’t wear such clothes, you are a girl so dress decently.” “This is not meant for girls.” “Don’t take up this as your career, girls don’t go for it.” “You are already 22 , its high time to get married now.” Typical comments by the society which kills hundreds of dreams. Indian society celebrates the birth of a ‘Boy’ child whereas considers a ‘Girl’ child as a burden. The first few areas of concern when a girl child is born are-“Expenses would be more, we need to save money for her marriage, she wouldn’t look after her parents after marriage as she will have to run her own family and so on.”  The society begins to get judgmental the moment a girl child is born. Right since the early ages, some rules and norms are set based on the gender, in which the kid is expected to behave. More than considering what the kid likes to do, we persuade...